garek007 thread wiped out......

asoloJune 19, 2012

....for the second time. Not the end of the world, but I don't understand why.

Thank you for reporting this comment. Undo
garek007

because this stuff keeps coming to bite me in the a$$. hard to explain. I appreciate all the advice, but need to jump off this site for good.

    Bookmark   June 19, 2012 at 11:58AM
Thank you for reporting this comment. Undo
asolo

OK, bye. Hope everything works out for you.

    Bookmark   June 19, 2012 at 12:00PM
Thank you for reporting this comment. Undo
mkroopy

As much as I have enjoyed (not a great choice of words, I know, since it involves the breakup of a marriage) hearing his story and participating in his threads, I keep thinking there is more to the story than he's telling us.....the multiple vanishing threads, the need for an almost immediate resolution of every issue that comes up...curious. But I guess we'll never know.

I wish him well though. Just think he needs to slow down a bit, and let life happen.....enjoy the journey a little more...stop obsessing on the end goal....

    Bookmark   June 19, 2012 at 12:21PM
Thank you for reporting this comment. Undo
tracystoke

I think he is drunk most of the time

    Bookmark   June 19, 2012 at 1:52PM
Thank you for reporting this comment. Undo
garek007

Roopy, nothing I'm not telling, but you're right, I do rush. Tracy, that is not the case.

    Bookmark   June 19, 2012 at 5:22PM
Thank you for reporting this comment. Undo
garek007

Bottom line is if you Google me I come up too much. I don't really want these threads coming up. I don't want any new person I might date to jump to conclusions when they find this, but rather, I'd like to have them hear it from me. It's bad enough my actual name shows a wedding registry with someone from my past. It wasn't even real, we did it as a joke, but it shows I'm getting married in June 2013. I dont' want to meet someone, have them Google me, and think I'm running around while married, because that is not the case.

    Bookmark   June 19, 2012 at 5:25PM
Thank you for reporting this comment. Undo
asolo

Wonders of the web. Once it's out there, it's OUT there.

    Bookmark   June 19, 2012 at 5:59PM
Thank you for reporting this comment. Undo
garek007

indeed. and who knows who googles who these days. I'd just prefer them to hear it from me rather than jump to any conclusions based on whatever they may or may not find. But thanks to everyone for your help, especially asolo and MK, and amyfiddler

    Bookmark   June 19, 2012 at 6:51PM
Thank you for reporting this comment. Undo
mkroopy

...another reason to have a TOTALLY unique name for any anonymous forum or bbs you use.

My GF has no clue i post on here...and I've never mentioned it to her...I think no matter how close you are to your "significant other", you need to have a place to vent, talk about things, etc. where it won't come back to bite you in the a$$ because he/she is "checking up on you". If you use your common email/youtube/or whatever "handle"...all this stuff can be found in one web search.

"Mkroopy" is a name I only use here...and no one in my "real" life would ever think to Google it...so there is actually a little sense of privacy for me.

Watch I probably spoke too soon....one of you is probably someone i actually know...lol!

    Bookmark   June 20, 2012 at 1:12PM
Thank you for reporting this comment. Undo
garek007

yeah I should set something like that up...

    Bookmark   June 20, 2012 at 4:17PM
Thank you for reporting this comment. Undo
silversword

Holy Batman Garek!!! You have done reviews ALL OVER THE WEB!!! I have to admit curiosity got the best of me. Your wedding looked beautiful, sorry about the prix-fixe menu on the beach dinner.

Get a new screen name ;)

    Bookmark   June 21, 2012 at 3:54PM
Sign Up to comment
More Discussions
Fed up and frustrated
I feel very frustrated and fed up with my marriage....
fedupin512
My partner's son hates me, how do I build a relationship with him
I have been dating a man for about five months. I know...
nbee
Frustrated and lonely
Hi, I am really glad I found this forum, I can see...
forgottenhusband1
Scarlett's List of People to Avoid (Romantically)
Reading some of these recent posts, I'm moved to start...
scarlett2001
Is It a Spouse's Responsibility?
My husband's relationship with some of his siblings...
Karen10125
© 2015 Houzz Inc. Houzz® The new way to design your home™