What was the biggest surprise?
After you got married, what was the thing you found the most surprising, or different than what you expected? Not necessarily bad, not necessarily good, just not what you expected?
DH and I never lived together, so what time he went to bed never really came across my mind. We came home after the honeymoon, and here is a guy who goes to bed between 8:30 and 9:00pm most nights, then is up with the dawn. I like to stay up later, and sleep in later.
I come from a family of nighthawks (not layabeds, just nighthawks), so it was really strange for me at first to get used to such an early bird. But I've gotten used to being more considerate about noise after 9pm, and he's gotten used to sleeping through phone calls etc. after he's in bed.