confused about affair
I caught my wife cheating. At first, she said it only lasted 3 weeks and was a emotional affair. i had reason not to believe her so i kept digging. turns out they had a 3 month emotional and sexual affair. when i first caught her she said all the right things like im sorry, i stopped it after 3 weeks because i love you and didn't want to hurt you. she actually set up a marrige counslor. turns out i still did not have all the story. she was still lying to me and the counslor. she was still talking to the other guy and was actually trying to guilt him into leaving and being with her. we have a child, that is the reason i have not bolted at this point. she now says it was all lies, what she told the other guy and wants to be with me. i feel i have no reason to believe her, but i really don't want to break up my family and be without my daughter. i'm just really confused on what to do!