Wife wants no intimacy from me
I am a prostate cancer survivor who went through some horrific treatments that made me impotent, however it did not kill my sex drive ... I still have the desire ... just can't get an erection. It has been over a year since my wife and I have been intimate. Because of my condition I have purchased "toys" in hopes that she would allow me to use them to bring her and me pleasure. Bringing her pleasure brings me extreme pleasure ... I enjoy so much watching and listening to her reach her orgasm. I imagine the "real" thing would be more pleasurable to a woman, but since I can't give her the "real" thing I am in search of something else to pleasure her with. These toys are vibrators and a dildo ... nothing too kinky. As for me I am 67 years old and on testosterone replacement which may be part of the problem. I need a woman's point of view.