Confused - help
I've been married to my second wife for 7 years now, she was also married once before. We have two small children together. When we were dating she told me she had only seven sex partners before me. The other night the subject came up again and she said it was really 15, as the conversation went on she told me she also had an abortion. I have caught her in small lies in the past that were no big deal other than breaking down trust. It's not like I am trying to catch her in a lie, they have been lies about silly stuff when the truth would have been just as good. I feel like she is not the person I thought I married. Should I ignore the past? I can't get it out of my mind since she told me. Abortion, 15 guys, Am I being unreasonable? I really don't want a second divorce but I can't cope with not trusting either.