how to be treated
Does anyone else have a spouse that always just thinks of themselves? My husband and I are in therapy for my temper and his emotional affair. The counselor wanted him to take me on a date. He has tried in a way. The older girls (18 and 16) took care of the 9 year old. So we went out, he had no idea about the movie, he did not go to the bank for cash (check is direct deposit) and fell asleep during the movie. The next time he was walking so far ahead I fell trying to keep up. My foot swelled so bad I could not get my shoe off. He decided to take me to a buffet restuarant (his favorite) and then to a movie. The next day the doctor told him the foot was broken...he did not even blink. So how do you get treated like a person and not a dog? The counselor cannot go with us on a date. He made an attempt with cards, but he would not sign them or anything. Am I stupid for staying in the marriage? I am trying for the 9 year old, but am I treating my daughters to accept this treatment? Please help me.