How do I tell my best friend her husband is cheating on her?
I desperately need help. I just found out today that my best friend's husband is cheating on her. They have been married for over 20 years and have 4 kids. They have been having problems for the last year or more and are currently going to counseling. I suspected something and asked her if she minded if I snooped around his office while he was out of town and she said she wanted me to. Well, I found phone records, a prescription for Viagra ( they haven't had sex in over a year, so why did he need it? , and then in his trash can I found a cd with her suggestive photo on it. Then i got on his computer, which he stupidly leaves on with no password,and I found over 500 e-mails to her saying how much he loved her and couldn't wait for them to be married. The problem is that my friends' father just had open heart surgery 3 days ago and I don't think he could take seeing her so hurt. Her father was already mad at her husband for going on a vacation while he was having his surgery. Help!!!!!! Should i tell her now before her husband gets back from out of town in 3 days, or should I wait another week to tell her when her dad is stronger and when her husband takes their 4 kids out of town for spring break ( she cannot go because she has to work to support him!!))))..... need advice asap. Thanks!