Unhappy marriage and now wife having a relation
I have been married for 12 years. Have a 7 year old son. Our marriage was never good. She treated me like a servant.
I tried to show my love many times but she always refused and said I am a bad man from a bad family.
Recently one day I came home early and heard my wife having a romantic conversation. It appears she had relation with this guys
from before our marriage. I was distraught and left home. Later confronted her. She says she never called anyone, not having any affair.
Says that guys called once 1 year back.
I said I need a divorce but she started saying she loves me so much that she cannot live without me etc. I think she is just doing damage control.
Relationship gurrus, what should I do now?