Anybody know what the deal is here?
My husband drives a truck, but usually gets home on the weekends. He spends alot of time on the computer and is always looking at nude/naked women and porn. It makes me feel resentful towards him because I dont feel attractive since he does look at other women all the time. Most of the time I get sleepy cause it's late and I just go on to bed and fall asleep.
Even at 1:30 am or 2:30 am, he is still online looking at naked women. Whenever he does get in the bed, he wants to have sex. I dont want sex when that happens because he is turned on looking at other women, NOT turned on at ME.
Other times, he just isnt interested or initiates sex at all. He sleeps on the edge of the bed, watches tv or pets the dog. The only time he touches me is to do something I HATE like nipple pinching. Its so agravating that I just want dont want to be around him.
Whenever we do have good sex, it was because I started the whole thing by forcing him to lay down while I do all the work. I dont feel that he is attracted to me at all because he never "starts it" unless he's been looking at porn.
I feel that porn is disrespectful to your spouse. I dont have pin ups of guys or have to look at naked guys on the computer.
Is this just me ? or what in the world is his deal! Anybody else with this problem?