Wife cheated, should I stay or go
We have been married for 18 years and I found out my wife cheated early in our marriage. The first time was at year year 6 and the next at year 8. She confessed the affairs to me 3 years ago and I decided to stay and try to work it out. We went to consoling and I thought all was going to be ok. She was very emotional and beg for me to forgive her. I automaticly said I would forgive her, but I think that was because she was so upset. It was my nature to protect her. All this time I have been wondering if I should have left. I love her now as a friend and still care for her, but there is no passion at all on my part. We have two wonderful daughters, 16 & 10.
My wife has now given me the opportunity to take some time apart and see if that will help. She said she wants me to stay, but if I am not happy she would rather set me free.
What should I do?