Dealing with rejection
Ever since our Valentine's Day missed adventure I have made several overtures toward my wife with complete rejection or a simple no.
Well, this morning I tried again because men are stupid it seems. After her quick "no" spending me away to get ready for work I respobded with it doesm't matter anyway. It was the only thing that popped into my head trying not to show my dissapointment.
Right before I left the house she asked why I do that and that I created all the tension in our marriage. Trying to be undetanding but to share my feelings I told her that it was only that my ego got bruised and i'm dealing with that.
Her response was "I guess you don't care about my feelings". How quickly she can turn (180 degress) whatever I said into what about her. She added the fact tht we wee intimate just last week so what's the problem with you (meaning me).
How do you justify your feelings? Or how do you just make yourself just brush off these comments without trying to place blame somewhere?