found emails between my husband and an escort. this turned out to be only the tip of the iceberg. he had been seeing prostitutes for 2 1/2 years -- about 7 different women.
to make matters worse, he posted reviews of these prostitutes online on an escort review website so now i know every single detail of what he did with each of these women.
i was shocked, absolutely shocked. the man i married was so opposed to infidelity that he would fume if people even hinted toward it.
he says he has an addictive personality and doesn't understand why he did this. he's going to a psychatrist and wants me to go to marriage counseling with him.
has anyone out there been through anything like this (on either side)? i don't know what to think, how to even think about a future with him but part of me has loved him for so long that i'm petrified at the idea of leaving him.
to put a bit of brief detail into the story, we have been married for 10 years and have a 2 year old son. i never, ever refused sex and often pleaded with him to fool around.