Would you think he is cheating?
When I met him we became friends, we laughed together, talked about things. I told him that honesty was very important to me. But I am finding that he is not honest with me in many ways. But I do not know how to confront him with it. I went through this before, and I know what the outcome will be. He will get angry and defencive. What he does not seem to understnad that when I find that he has not been honest with me I withdraw from him. I do not feel the same now. Having sex with him is hard cause I feel that the dishonesty is putting a wedge between us and he does not even know it. Like right now I took off from work because I did not feel good, so he thinks I am at work. He gets off at 4:30, and it is now 7:00. Where is he. I see where he calls someone before he leaves work. I have access to the phone records since I pay them. Who does he call on his way to work and when he gets off?
I found out that he has a porn on his computor which I do not mind but when he hides it I feel that he is lieing to me. Which he is cause he always told me that he didnt watch that stuff. When I mention us watching them he says no I do not like that stuff.
He says he has been working around the house all night when I get home from work, but I can tell that not much has been done. So I do not know when he got home. I work a lot of nights.
What should I do?