Sleeping apart damaging new marriage
I could really use some advice. On and off for the past six months or so, my new husband (we married in August) has (in a round about way) refused to come to bed. I go to bed, sleep and wake up alone probably five days a week. He tells me this is because he can't sleep and needs to fall asleep watching a movie, but I have my doubts.
As I mentioned previously, this has only been happening for about six months. It also doesn't happen when we are on vacation or away from home. This is causing a lot of damage to our relationship. I feel like I am losing control, and am sad and angry all the time. We have hardly spoken this week (this being one of the reasons, but also because we have gotten in petty arguments every couple of days and we play the silent treatment game).
I don't know what to do here. Otherwise, we have a loving and wonderful relationship (except for the grudge holding part).
I really want to get back to happy times.
Thanks in advance.