detergents with no OBAs that really clean
I'm looking for a detergent that can really, really clean (my husband loves to tinker with things and gets super dirty), doesn't fade clothing, and - in a perfect world - has no pthalates, either. I know, I'm not asking for much:) Tide Free cleans great, but has OBAs, but doesn't have fragrance, which is a good thing. I may only be able to get 2 out of 3 things that I want in a "perfect" detergent, but would love to hear any suggestions.
I have used Persil Megaperls in the past and thought it worked great, but it does have fragrance, so I'm not sure about the pthalate thing there. I'm going to have a new grandbaby soon, and I'm sure I will be washing his/her clothes occasionally, so would love to find something that is really effective but doesn't have lots of nasty chemicals added. Ideas?