Update.. help with grieving hisband...
First off I want to thank everyone for there offers of advice, This is a wonderful site.
My husband is doing much better as far as the anger goes, though still extremely sad. He just finds it so unfair and doesn't know what to do for his brother's pain. I offer as much help as I can and have let him know am there when he needs to let it out whether it's anger or sadness.
The holiday's aren't helping any as we spend Christmas eve with his Brother. I just don't know how they are going to cope.
Thank you all again for letting me share my pain.