What about holiday time?
i have made it through 9 months now. can some of your give us new grieving folks some ideas about Christmas holidays? since Al passed friends have dropped off the face of the earth, Al's sisters think of us as low lifes (they are all super rice and we are now too, but i won't let them know that Al thought about us after his passing, before that we were average people). Al and i have 2 children a 19 year old daughte in university on full scholarship because of marks and a 24 old son who does not live at home and oh yes the puppy Al gave me for my birthday who he named Gracie Joy Divine. i've decided that we will wrap any gifts in non-holiday paper, but do you put up a tree etc. on one hand i think it would take your mind off of things, then there is the ornament memories. thanks!