My 19yr old son commited suicide

Missing_JustinNovember 23, 2004

I hurt so bad! Its hard to funtion. I can't believe my beautiful son is gone.

He hung himself in his fathers basement on Novemeber 15, 2004

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Nell Jean

So incredibly sad. Sometimes it seems that young people can only see the present situation and see no way out. If you feel like it, we'd like to hear about your son; the little boy you loved so much, the grown up son so handsome and charming. You need not share anything that you'd rather not tell us.

You can see by the number of posts here that you are not alone. We do care.

Nell

    Bookmark   November 23, 2004 at 12:46PM
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Vickey__MN

I'm so sorry for your loss.

Vickey-MN

    Bookmark   November 23, 2004 at 1:10PM
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alisande

I can only repeat Nell's suggestion to talk to us about your beautiful son. I believe that he is still beautiful, and encourage you to be open to signs that he is still close to you.

Susan

    Bookmark   November 23, 2004 at 1:41PM
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troiano

I am so sorry for the loss of your son. I can't even immagine the pain you must be going through. I also lost a friend to suicide on November 15th. A 46 year old father of two took his life by closing the garage, turning on the truck and putting a hose from the exhause into the truck window. His son is addicted to heroin and his wife is disabled due to a botched surgery to replace a pace maker. I have just found out that his wife had a stroke yesterday after the funeral services. My heart is broken I don't know what to do...it's not fair.

    Bookmark   November 23, 2004 at 10:49PM
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jlj48

I am so sorry for your loss. Please share about him when you are up to it.

    Bookmark   November 23, 2004 at 11:45PM
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Bowdoin

I am very sorry you have to experience the loss of your son. We are here for you to share your hurt & pain. Hugs.
Emma in PA

    Bookmark   November 24, 2004 at 7:25AM
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trinitytx

please keep with us and let us help you through some of your pain.
the holiday season will be especially tough for you.
we all care..

trin

    Bookmark   November 24, 2004 at 8:24PM
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lulie___wayne

I am so, so, sorry for your loss. We would love to hear all about Justin and see a picture of him also. Please feel free to tell us all about him when you feel like it. I too, lost a 19 year old daughter.I know you probably feel like you can't live another 5 minutes. I promise you, as time goes on it will get a little easier.
If you would like to meet my 19 year old who is in heaven with your son, click on the site below.
Lu

Here is a link that might be useful: Christin Cosby Memorial Web Site

    Bookmark   November 24, 2004 at 9:08PM
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Brycesmommy

I'm so sorry. I hope you find ways to get through each day.

    Bookmark   November 25, 2004 at 9:03AM
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kimnkitties

I'm sorry for your loss. You both are in our thoughts.

    Bookmark   November 25, 2004 at 9:42PM
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evatx

My heart goes out to you! I'm so sorry for your loss. As others have said, I'd love to hear about your son when you feel up to it. In the meantime, please know that others care.

    Bookmark   November 26, 2004 at 9:45AM
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mariend

There are some wonderful grief counslours avaiable, and grief sessions. Contact your hospital, or look in the paper for a group near you. They will help you understand the whys and did i or did I not do----

    Bookmark   November 29, 2004 at 9:00PM
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gloriam

I feel your pain. I am so sorry for your loss. I also lost
a wonderful daughter Oct.10 from a overdose. I am feeling
such a lose also. Also lost a 17 year old grandson last
year in a car accident. It is hard belive me. You gotta
take one day at a time. All of us here know what you are
going though. I will pray for you.

    Bookmark   November 29, 2004 at 11:32PM
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des_arc_ya_ya

Oh, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. One of my best friends lost her son five years ago. He, also, hung himself. He was 23 years old.

Please know that others care. I'm like Eva - when you want to share some things about him we'd love to hear about your son. ((Justin's mom))

    Bookmark   November 30, 2004 at 7:40PM
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dcrowex

I am very sorry - this is so very tragic. Please tell us about your son. Share with us what you are going through.

Deb

    Bookmark   November 30, 2004 at 10:14PM
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