Update on situation w/ my dad....
My brother and I have discovered some conclusive evidence that my father was having an affair with his girlfriend prior to my mom's death.
I am sickened, disgusted, and I feel like everything I ever thought I knew about him was a lie.
And before anyone brings it up, no, my mother would never, ever had consented to any sort of 'open' marriage. In fact, this revelation makes some of what my mother said to me when she was sick make perfect sense. I think she knew what was going on, or at least suspected. They live in a small town, and I wonder how many people at my mother's funeral knew exactly what was going on.
So that's where we're at. I just want all of this to go away.