long-distance boyfriend's mum died... I need help
I hope someone can help.. I feel like a horrible person.
I am in a long-distance relationship (not for much longer, we're moving!) but in a sudden, devastating turn of events, his mum had a stroke and died. I am not able to go and see him before he leaves to go to the funeral and etc (he is from another country, his parents were here visiting when it happened). I want to send him a care package or something, but I don't know what I can possibly send that will show how much I love him, am hurting for him, and want to support him. He's very logical, left-brained, focused... it's hard for him to show emotions but I know he is hurting very badly over this. Does anybody have any ideas of what I can say, write, send to help? Any guys been through this (I pray not...) and can advise on some things you might have wanted or needed to receive from someone if you were in this situation?