Anyone lost someone in a 'freak' accident?
I just came across this forum and I was wondering if anyone had loss their spouse or loved one in a freak accident. I just lost my husband 6/6 from an accident involving a brain injury from a horse. It's possible it would be just as hard had it been a car accident or something that seems more likely. I'm having a hard time dealing with the way he went and being there when it happened. All of this is just harder than I could ever have imagined. I would also be interested in hearing from people with small children. I have three, 7,4,and 2 who were also with us at the time of the accident. I sent them inside as soon as it happened, but I know we are all deeply affected by what we saw. He lived for five days after the accident and was then declared brain dead and there were all of those decisions to make about removing life support, etc. You just can help but wonder what are the chances of something like this happening.