Has anyone lost an adult child?

mid_penJune 18, 2013

I don't know how to deal with the sadness I'm feeling. The ache in my heart is unbearable.

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BILL16WEST

Hi Mid Pen,

I have all the pain and feelings you are experiencing, my heart is broken and sore and I keep breaking down with tears and find my life unbearable.

    Bookmark   June 19, 2013 at 5:43PM
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mid_pen

I keep thinking, "How will we go on? How will we have Thanksgiving, Christmas, Easter, all the firsts since her death?" It seems beyond what I can imagine and it literally makes my heart hurt to think of it all. How old was your child? Mine was 37.

    Bookmark   June 20, 2013 at 3:04PM
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BILL16WEST

33 with three grandchildren 2,4,8. If it was not for my wife and two sons 20,25. I really don't think my life would be worth continuing.

    Bookmark   June 20, 2013 at 4:21PM
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mid_pen

Mine had no children. I think it would be easier, somehow, if she'd have had children because I'd have them to hold on to, but how awful it must be for those little ones. When I think that I'll never see her again, it just overwhelms me.

    Bookmark   June 20, 2013 at 6:46PM
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susie53_gw

My FIL never did get over his daughter dying. I think he mourned for her everyday. She had 5 children but they never knew how to respect anyone. So sad. Such a wonderful man.

    Bookmark   July 1, 2013 at 12:40AM
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