So sad with pre-grief
I guess I need someone I don't know to give me advice. My DH (56 yrs old) was diagnosed with LC with many mets to the spine the first of March. Still in shock and whatever else it's called. No cure. Just radiation to help the pain. Now pain pills. I want to cry every day, all day but can't. How do you deal with someone dying in front of you? How do they deal with it, know they are just waiting? The last radiation was almost 3 weeks ago. He is still in bed, needs quiet and dim lights, lots of sleep and nauseas. How long can/does this go? I am with him every day all day, except one hour. I am afraid. Any advice? Thank You.