My dad is terminally ill, what can I do?
I'm a mess since I found out that my dad is terminally ill with cancer everywhere, esophagus, lymph nodes, diaphram, spleen, aeora and pancreas. The Dr's say he has 6-12 mos, which is 5-11 mos now. He is having palliative care and taking chemo for comfort. Now he doesn't want to see his grandchildren, his only ones during this treatment for four weeks. I want him to have quality not quantity, but it seems as though he is choosing quantity. I know it's his decision, but what do I say to my children? My heart is breaking knowing one day sometime soon, I will be losing my dad and my children will be losing their Papa.
Does anyone have any words of wisdom for me?