my eldest son james passed away on the 17/02/2013..my son was only 23...my son died from blood posion, septisimia, storke and menigitis..i was by my son's side ans so was his brothers and sister and family and friends...in heaven now
That's so sad,,..my deepest condolences.
I'm so sorry.
Only "advice" I can think of is:
Take care of yourself.
Grief eats up your energy & weakens your immune system, & stress makes you less aware of other things that are going on.
Remember what they say on planes when they're demonstrating the emergency oxygen masks:
"Secure your own mask before you attempt to help others."
You must be healthy & strong to take care of your other children.
I wish all of you the very best.