No grand parents for my children
Both my parent died and my first daughter was only 10 when my mother died. My 3 other children never knew her and I can see how much they miss not having a grandmother. Children at school speak a lot about granmothers and grandfathers and I feel they are missing an important part of their families. As for my husband's parents they always refused to know the children. My husband's first wife left him for another man but as far as they were concerned she remained their daughter in law. If you feel that grandparents are sometimes spoiling your children, enjoy it I would have loved my children to enjoy that special love.