Did I make a mistake?
My grandson is suffering from depression. He is 17 and refuses to take any medication for it. He lives with his dad and grandparents and they don't seem to be able to convince him he needs it. Last Saturday I called him. He would barely answer my questions and was not very pleasant to speak to. It really bothered me so I wrote him a letter. In the letter I expressed the love I feel for him and also that he hurt my feelings. I told him that his decision to not take medication was an adult decision and that adult decisions carry responsibily. One is to act like an adult in dealing with others. I haven't heard from him and am wondering if the letter was a total mistake. I thought I'd call him tomorrow if I don't hear from him. Did I mess up my relationship with him?