i can;t see a life without my boys my daughter is on drugs she drinks 7 days a week i have had my boys from birth they are 5 & 12 years she hasnt helped support them ever! i cant go for child support;in fear the state will take from me and give them to her. my boys have diffrent fathers.she has had 2 husbonds a lot of shack-ups!! i love my boys so very much i cant see my life without them.with her they would go threw pure hell. i dont know what to do! the promises she makes to them are so many but she never goes threw with any of them! our laws have got to change somewhere.