I have just been told that my 17 and half year old son and his very immature girlfriend are having a baby and she is 5 months gone! I am only 35 and my husband is 38 and I am devastated to say the least. I know that when the baby arrives we will love him/her but I cannot accept myself as a "grandparent" as I am still raising my other 3 children who are aged between 15 and 6 years old.
On top of this his girlfriend is still young and I am having a terrible time dealing with it all, they never told iether of us parents until she was 5 months gone so it has quite literally hit us like a bomb!
Has this been the case for anyone else or we the only ones to be in this type of situation and to feel this way?