my sister

fitz99January 29, 2013

My sister committed suicide about a week ago she is still in the hospital and the dr say she has at most 10 days left. A lot of brain damage. It is so hard I wish would have known ... maybe I could have helped.

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sunnyca_gw

So sorry to hear this. We had suicide in our family nearly 100 yrs ago & family still tries to figure out why. There are no answers in this life. Some people just can't figure out a way to go on. Please don't blame yourself. You may need come counseling to deal with it. I don't have a sister, always wanted 1 got several brothers that are great! Hope you have a great girlfriend or guy friend/hubby etc to help you get through this.

    Bookmark   February 4, 2013 at 7:22PM
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jannie

My brother committed suicide in December. He was 55, a veteran, divorced. He was living alone in our late Mother's house and shot himself. I knew he was depressed and had guns in the house, so I feel responsible. But what could I do other than call him on the phone and write letters and cards?

    Bookmark   February 5, 2013 at 8:40AM
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Sad-33

If you had known, you would have help her... but you didn't. You couldn't see the future. Don't blame yourself for anything please! Be strong.

    Bookmark   February 9, 2013 at 2:46PM
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