Any grandparent(s) been denied or restricted visits due to hate by son or daughter's spouse? After 5 years, of son's wife's need for control and demeaning remarks to me, I think she is winning.
Just have to continue with life. Son, and babies, are welcome here, but I can no longer go to his home without insults by her. Son, either can't see or in denial. I've mentioned to him that she doesn't want me there and he seems mad. I've always tried to respect her, but she kept looking for fault. She makes fun of my laugh, everything I say or do.
My oldest granddaughter, reminded me that she has another grandma and that she spent the night there..she is not allowed here. Either son is brainwashed or our communication is nil. Anyone else had strained situation or had to let go?