Grandparent not fair
My FIL lives in FL and is not really involved in my childrens lives. However, he does occassionally send them gifts. Recently my son turned 12 and received a small gift and $20 from his grandfather. My daughter who had a birthday (14) the month before received nothing from him. I guess he "forgot". Is it worth sending a letter mentioning my annoyance with him, or should I just let it go? Unfortuantely this is the only grandfather they have. My husband just brushes it off as if he is not surprised by it. But I just don't know what my kids think about grandpa, especially my daughter who now thinks she is forgotten.