I am a new grandma as of a week ago. I find myself very jealous of my daughters boyfriend's mom. She has a grandson (six months old)already; this is my first. She doesn't work; I work 40-60 hrs per week. She spends every day over at my daughters house with my grandson. How do I get over this jealousy? What if my grandson loves her more than me because she is around him more? How do I make the time I have with him special as he grows?