seeking custody of grandson
My grandson will be 12 in April. This mother (my daughter) was killed in a car accident in 1995. In 1996 we got court ordered visitation. We have tried to be flexible over the years about visitation (it has never been followed). Recently (the past year) my grandson has been asking to come and live with us. He is unhappy and sometimes feels unsafe.He is being verbally/emotional abused (how do you prove something like this). He called me at work on his way home from school stated that he was told that he can no longer visit and he asked if he could go before a judge and state that he wants to live with us. Is this possible and how do I go about doing it? I'm worried about him.