debt consolidation help

shipcordOctober 1, 2002

My sister is going through a divorce. She has made some bad financial decisions, mainly that all the assets they owned are totaly in her name. Her soon to be ex has made sure that he is not liable for anything, and she is in financial straits!! Her credit could be in jeopardy, 250,000 worth. I suggested that she talk to a debt consolidater just to give her some breathing room until she can sell off some of her assets. After reading some of the posts, I am not so sure I gave her good advice. Would anyone like to give me some good advice that I might pass on to her. Where is a good starting point for her. I feel that she needs to get her finances in a manageable state, so she has room to negotiate better deals on the cars and property.

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She should start with her lawyer.

    Bookmark   October 1, 2002 at 3:32PM
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Ditto Landmarker.

She can't get a strategy together until her asset/liability status is stabilized & established.

    Bookmark   October 1, 2002 at 3:50PM
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Hello shipcord,

Do you feel at liberty to give us more information about what has developed in your sister's situation?

I was intrigued by the original ideas.

In what State is the situation developing?

Some other participants here - especially newly-marrieds - might find the ongoing issues instructive as they plan their lives.

I hope that things have developed in a better way than you feared originally.

Good wishes to your sister.

joyful guy

    Bookmark   August 7, 2003 at 7:03PM
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From what I understand, no matter whose name the debt was in, if they were married, he is 50% responsible for the repayment of that debt. There was an article in the paper the other night about a women who had been divorced several years, her ex was killed in an accident and she was contacted by one of his creditors about a $3000 credit card bill he had. She explained that they had been divorced for several years and they said that he had never removed her name from the account, so she was liable for his debt. Talk about a blow. His relatives refuse to pay the card off with the proceeds from his estate as well. I agree with landmarker, she needs to start with a good lawyer and fast.

    Bookmark   August 8, 2003 at 2:23PM
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This original post is so old, but, for what it's worth... if all assets are in her name, just cash in on some of them.

Especially the ones that she owes big balances on and doesn't really care about (boat, extra car (ESPECIALLY HIS) etc.

let us know how it turns out.

    Bookmark   August 10, 2003 at 4:18AM
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