Message to Spike
There's a forum here titled, "Is it normal for your spouse to keep earnings a secret?".
Initial post in April, last year.
A number of contributors have said several things that would seem to encourage a reply from the original poster.
There has been no message from the poster since - which is, of course, her right.
A number of us are rather worried that the woman involved may be in some jeopardy. We earnestly hope that there is no reason for us to worry.
Do you have the means to send a message to this woman, to see whether she may be O.K.?
I rather doubt it - she has given no information in her profile.