Holiday Open Houses? Educate me please.

bbgirl66December 8, 2004

Since moving to New England from Chicago I have been invited to 3 holiday open houses. I had never been to one in Chicago nor heard of one so not sure if it's a New England thing or just coincidence. One of my invites has an RSVP while the others do not. One is on a Sunday afternoon and hosted by three families, however, only taking place at the home of the person I do know. I do not know the other two families. The others are Saturday evening open houses and do not require RSVP.

So do I bring food? Flowers? Gifts for the kids? For the one with three hosting parties do I bring hostess gifts for all three? Hostess gift ideas for someone I don't know very well?

TIA for your help!

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lindac

A hostess gift is always nice but not necessary....an open house means come and go as you wish.....but don't stay for the whole time on the invitation.
The fact that there are 3 couples on one invitation indicates that it will be a BIG party...perhaps trying to fulfill all obligations at once.
It is always obligatory to respond to any invitation....RSVP or not....just good manners!
I would take a small gift to the people I knew....but not to the one with 3 people hosting....and remember to write a nice note to the 3 hosts.
Linda C

    Bookmark   December 9, 2004 at 12:26PM
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lowspark

An open house is the kind of a party people usually have if they're inviting a lot of people -- too many to fit in the house all at once. The idea is for folks to come and go to sort of spread out the guest list over several hours, thus avoiding overcrowding and giving the host/hostess more opportunity to visit with more of their guests.

I would agree with everything Linda said. As for bringing food, I'd probably ask the hostess what I could bring. I just do this as sort of standard procedure to any party I'm invited to anyway. That way, if the party is being catered and the hostess has everything set just so, she can say don't bring anything.

On the other hand, you won't show up with no food to a party where everyone else brings something. I've had that happen to me -- everyone else knew to bring something since it was an annual party they had attended before, we weren't asked to and didn't know since it was our first time!

    Bookmark   December 9, 2004 at 2:05PM
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seagrass_gw

Wine or a seasonal flowering plant is nice when you're not sure about the food. I like to take bulbs like paperwhite narcissus or amaryllis just ready to flower. They're inexpensive enough, easy to dress up, you don't have to do any cooking and no one has to eat them!!

    Bookmark   December 9, 2004 at 4:37PM
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lindac

And ...re: the flowering bulbs....they bloom and die and you can throw them away!!
I like to give "disposables"...like wine, flowers, very nice paper napkins, candy, nuts etc.
Linda C

    Bookmark   December 9, 2004 at 11:40PM
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