I mailed the invitations three weeks in advance... planned the menu... carefully picked the games (3) for the variety of people invited and decorated the new house to the T, one problem; no one RSVPed by the deadline. Do I call everyone (all 25 of them), do I plan the party hoping someone shows, or should I just cancel it and not tell anyone, then when they show say "well I'm sorry I cancelled because I had no response" and let them with pie in the face? This is not the first time I had no RSVP's, but people showed anyway. I feel angry. I just want to make them understand how much I put into this and they act like I just expect them to show. Any suggestions on how to react to these inconsiderate invitees? Thanks, just needed to vent.