What not to say.
I would very much love to encourage my adult daughter to lose weight. She has so many health problems and too little health insurance. Still I keep quiet because I don't want to hurt her feelings. I know her overeating goes back to her childhood when treats were used to soothe the rough times; very bad parenting choice. Still I want so much for her to lose weight. Was there anything anyone said to you in a constructive way that actually motivated you to lose weight?