Please advise me. This is not a "disaster", but I thought the best forum to post this question on. I would appreciate your opinion. While we were out of town for an extended stay, our neighbors/friends asked us if their relatives (family with two young children) could stay at our house during their visit. Our friends did not have enough bedrooms to accomadate them. We told them yes, of course they could stay. She emailed me and said the family really enjoyed staying at our home and the kids loved using the hot tub, etc. She said she checked the house and they had done up the bed sheets/towels, etc. When we came home, we noticed that our cream colored bedspread and shams had a lot of large yellow stains all over it, including one that was a shoe print. I mentioned it to my friend, saying I didn't want to tell her, but I hoped to find out what it might be, so I could tell the cleaners. She replied that they would stop by and take a look at it, and that her husband was good at telling what stains were. I then got an email from her saying that they have loaned out many things that came back damaged, and that they had never said anything to the people. She also said that it is indeed better never to be a lender or a borrower. She said they would clean it, and replace it, if necessary. I replied that wasn't necessary, we would take it to the cleaners, and I was sorry I mentioned it. I now feel bad that I mentioned it. Did I do the wrong thing, what should I have done? Thank you in advance.