Architect communication problems
We are suppose to be building a house this year with an architect that we have been working with since last year. Our relationship with her has been going downhill however since last year and we do not know what to do at the point we are at. We love the house she has made for us (minus one window she doesn't seem to be listening to us about), but everything else is not good. We'd welcome some ideas /suggestions on a polite and firm way to get our points across to her without making her feel "disrespected", nor for her to speak back to us in a condescending way.