What do you do when your husband's a slob?
I love this forum, I think i read every post - mostly looking for someone with a similar situation.
I'm slowing getting my house remodeled, all by myself, cause my husband is oblivious. It's slow going, cause I'm not in good health, and it takes me probably three times longer to do things than normal people do.
Most of the kitchen stuff was done a month ago: a new soapstone countertop, new sink, cooktop, and fridge (all stainless.) It took me forever to clean up the dust and mess the workmen left, but finally, I did it.
Not five minutes after I put everything back, my husband was in the kitchen, frying something. (I should mention that it took me two days to clean the oven after the last time he cooked a roast at 500 degrees, with smoke all over the house, on the mirrors, everywhere, and the oven crusted over in a charred black mess.)]
He's a big fryer. He is also a big pig. He absolutely refuses to clean up after himself. Yes, I've shown him the mess, but he might swipe it and spread the grease, but he walks away from it.
I'm about ready to get a divorce. It's so hard for me to clean, and it wasn't clean five minutes before he started again.
Any advice would be appreciated.