new here and need to talk
We took my grandmother in after my grandfather passed away in March. She is a diabetic, double amputee with dementia. She is bedridden most of the time other than to get up and eat, but then some days she is like her old self. Some days she can talk just as plain as day and knows everything thats going on around her, and some days she can hardly talk and is incontinent and can't hold her bowels. My children and husband are really struggling with this because it requires my 24 hour attention. I think the thing that bothers me most is the smell of urine and feces, I can't get the smell out of bed linens and the house. Any suggestions, I take the poopy diapers out right away but it stinks up the entire house, I have tried all kinds of sprays, oust, febreze, lysol, etc. anyone have any suggestions to get the smell out of linens and the house?