What to do about my parents?
After a minor accident this week it has come to my attention that they need to stop driving. They have very little money and can't afford the handivan or taxi in their area and they don't want to impose on others so will not ask for rides. I live 3 hours away and have considered moving back there but I am sure any job I get will not be as lenient as my current one where I can take time off whenever I need to drive them to appointments etc. Dad is talking about having to buy a new car since the accident and I don't think he even realizes that he shouldn't be driving anymore. Mom told me there have been several other incidents and near misses. I feel absolutely sick - first knowing my parents need help and I'm not there, second to have to tell them to stop driving, third to not have any solution to this. I am looking for places where I live but they are all too expensive. I am at a complete loss. Can anyone give me some direction?