My MIL is 92 and lives 1300 miles away from us. Last year she fell at home,broke some ribs and ended up in rehab for a month.When she got home,we got caretakers to look after her for 5 days a week for 6 hours a day. The other days, friends would come by and look in on her. She did fine without 24hr care. Last month she fell several times and now needs someone to stay with her 24hrs a day. Her dementia is getting worse and at times she is paranoid. It is very expensive to have 24hr care at home and she can't afford that for very long. We found a place near us that will take her and it is affordable but how do we move her?
She used to get picked up and driven to church but can no longer do that. The caretaker said that she was getting very anxious just riding in the car so how are we going to get her on a plane? She doesn't want to go because she is afraid we will put her someplace and all she wants to do is to stay in her house.We know we have to move her but are looking for an easy way. Any advice?