My mom wants to be left to die
I have written out this story in more detail on my website entry below, but in summary, Mom feels ready to die and wants me to help her convince the doctors to let her stop all her meds.
I feel this is a whole lot of responsibility, even though I'm the legal health POA, which has been activated. Mom was always clear about how she wanted to die quickly with no medical intervention if she got a chronic disease that left her with bad quality of life, which is where we are now. She has a DNR order, etc, but it just doesn't cover grey areas like this.
hard, hard, hard.
anyone been through this?