My MIL is in an assisted living remenescent home. She has mild dementia. She can not live on her own. She is also incontinent. She refuses to wear depends or other type products. The staff assists her with this problem but she will take them off and hide or flush them. Then when she realizes she needs to use the bathroom its too late and she has an accident. Do any of you have any suggestions on getting her to wear them. We have removed her underwear from her room thinking that she would wear the depends if nothing else to wear but that didn't work. Look forward to hearing from you wise caregivers.