Alzeimer's Patient's Prayer
Pray for me, I was once like you.
Be kind and loving to me,
That's how I would have treated you.
Remember I was once someone's parent or spouse, I had a life and a dream for the future.
Speak to me, I can hear you even if I don't understand what you are saying.
Speak to me of things in my past of which I can still relate.
Be considerate of me, my days are such a struggle.
Think of my feelings because I still have them and can feel pain.
Treat me with respect because I would have treated you that way.
Think of how I was before I got Alzheimer's; I was full of life, I had a life, laughed and loved you.
Think of how I am now, my disease distorts my thinking, my feelings, and my ability to respond, but I still love you even if I can't tell you.
Think about my future because I used too.
Remember I was full of hope for the future just like you are now.
Think how it would be to have things locked in your mind and can't let them out.
I need you to understand and not blame me, but Alzheimer's.
I still need the compassion and the touching and most of all I still need you to love me.
Keep me in your prayers because I am between life and death.
The love you give will be a blessing from God and both of us will live forever.
How you live and what you do today will always be remembered in the heart of the Alzheimer's Patient.
- by Carolyn Haynali Â©3/10/00
I see my Mother the way she used to be: rustling in taffeta, hair done, perfumed, clipping on her earrings and reaching for her evening bag, joining Dad for an evening celebration with friends...they were magnificent, I thought....I can still catch the scent of Je Reviens...I watched them prepare for a gala evening, mesmerized by their preparations....so sophisticated, but probably our age now....That's how I remember them...my late Dad and now my Mom, sticken with Alzeimer's...holding a teddy-bear with such gentleness....Lord....your ways are mysterious, indeed......and so difficult to fathom.....