How can we make mom move to assist. liv?
Just got back from a long week-end with my MIL who is in the early stages of Alzhiemer's. She is still in her own home and driving. BIL has POA and also lives out of town. Most days she is fine. Her short term memory is totally gone but she compensates by writing everything down. However, we have had some episodes of very abusive, bizarre behavior. I think she's having delusions or hallucinations. BIL says we can't force her to move until something catastrophic happens. I feel this is morally irresponsible. However, I am the in law and without having her sons declare her incompetant, I don't know what to do. Is there any way to avoid disaster???