Last Minute Worries
I need to vent. This week may be the week I put Mother in the nursing home. We have an appointment in the morning. Then it may just be a day or two. The nursing home is expecting her.
Will they really take good care of her? My SIL said this afternoon that they may not check on her as aften as we do? Why would she say that? I have been worrying ever since.
I did a walk thru of the place this morning while my sister made her visit. (She hasn't been here since January.) The place looked ok but who knows how it will actually turn out for Mother. I plan to check on her often and at unexpected times but will that be enough?
My only other option as I see it is to quit work and get as much help as I can to take care of her at home. The major drawback to this is that I would lose my health insurance.
Right now I don't know what to do. I want Mother to be well taken care of AND to keep my job.
Thanks for listening. Gotta go. Mother is waking up from her nap.